Talking to self..A power

Everyone has a god gift to talk to themselves,isnt it?

Why is it a god gift?

Becoz nobody can support u more than urself...

We have friends,parents,partners to share ur feelings.So many people share with others when we feel worried or happy.But most of the times most of them feel bad from inside when they share anything when they are sad.

Y?

Suppose there is an exam which u r suppose to attend and a damn important exam and by fate we went late to the exam and not allowed to the exam!!! The situation is more than pathetic to feel.And now you call a friend whom you call and share the situation,they may show sympathy to u and feel bad(What else can they do,max they can take u out).But supposedly your friend is also inside the hall and writing the exam.

U weel damn wrecked!!

Now you call your mum/dad who is much closer to you among them.And you share the situation.

In such a situation lets first go from ur side,

u yourself is embarrassed to tell that this particular thing has happened,and might be scared also to tell teh same to your parents. 

Now from you mum/dad side:

They will be wishing whole heartedly and might be praying that my kid should have written the exam very well as he/she has prepared and should succeed in everything good thing they do.

Now you happen to call them in a time where they dont expect a call from you and say:

You:  "hello"

Mama: "what beta what happened"(they can find that something is wrong asap they hear ur voice)

You:i need to tell you something

Mama:Its ok beta tell wat happened

You:i got late to the exam hall

(The earth under her legs shakes and she is like how cum this happened,ok fine let me talk first)

Mama:how cum u got late to the exam-hall?(a bit demandingly to know jus in case u were negligent)

You:there was a problem in the bike and full traffic jam,i started an hour before,even then this happened

Mama:So now what r u doing? and where are you?

You:i am outside the exam hall and tried a lot to get in but the particular officer didnt allow me.I dont know what to do

Mama:its ok fine beta ,leave it now and see what all can be done.Now u dont cry.

You:......

Mama:fine wait i will call you aftertalking to dad.Mean time u see what all you can do.

   

And now u feel still more wrecked for the grief you gifted your mom and dad because of your mistake/fate.

The best thing you could have done is that first cool down,sit somewhere and thought for a minute and thought what can be done and what should be done to minimize the impacts of this incident on you life.And act asap u find a solution.

Now finally what i want to say is when anything disastrous/best happens in ur life only best thing you can ever do is that "TALK TO YOURSELF"

In all these busy days,most of us feel frustrated,irritated and so disgusting.End of the day we feel so bad and always turn up crying or sleeping and wake up in midnight with bad dreams or discomfort.

Y shud we feel so creepy when we have a god gift.

I have seen many friends feeling the same,always complaining but never even tried to think of a solution.Y dont u sit all by yourself and probe y u became like this.U can see miracles when u do this.

This is not a advice or any suggestion.This is my thought.Just a matter of thought which may make you feel better and be yourself.

"The world's best attitude is be yourself."

Think about this jus for a minute and am sure u cud agree with this ..!!!